In many cultures around the world, there is a particular way to enjoy meals with friends or family. In Chinese culture, Dim Sum is a specific style of eating in which meals are shared in a comfortable environment with small dishes. Dim Sum (點心) literally means “touch the heart” in Chinese, and is characterized by its communal style of dining for either breakfast or lunch (Liu). Despite the setting of Dim Sum generally being considered more relaxed, there are certain rules or ways to show your respect that may be useful the next time you go.
Tea is a major part of Chinese cuisine, and Dim Sum is no exception to this. Before you even begin eating, it is traditional to wash your utensils with hot tea first (Gao). From experience, it is easiest to pour some tea into the cup first and then use that to clean bowls, chopsticks, or plates. The excess tea is then poured into a basin to be discarded. It is also expected that you pour tea for everyone else first before pouring for yourself, it shows respect for those who you are dining with (Gao). The same concept can be applied for each dish, if there is only one piece left, offer it to others first before taking it for yourself (Gao). If you run out of tea, you can tilt the lid of it to signal a refill too (Gao). When others serve tea for you, you can express thanks by tapping your index and middle fingers twice against the table (Bloomberg). These are some of the more introductory rules that are essential, but they will make you feel more involved and immersed in the experience.
Dim Sum is a dining experience that encourages community and conversation, and one that can be a little confusing for first timers. But hopefully these tips allow you to feel more comfortable and confident the next time you go to Dim Sum!
